Two minutes to a longer lifespan

Lena Dunham writes in a way that just resonates, which might explain why I tore through Famesick in less than a day. (Also, note to self: Wow, I should look at my Kindle instead of my phone more often.) Yes, it delivers on the tea-spilling celeb memoir front. And Dunham’s medical journey alone makes this a must-read, especially as she gets unusually candid about her health in ways she hasn’t before.

But after I finished it, what stuck with me was how uncomfortably familiar Dunham’s descriptions of trying to succeed at work feels. No, I don’t have a television show or millions of followers, but the anxiety, the weird power dynamics, the constant pressure to perform? It’s hard not to recognize some version of that in modern work culture (and in myself).

Which is where things get a little murkier. Because a lot of what we’ve been taught to see as ambition, discipline, or “being a team player” can start to blur into something else entirely. It helps explain why we keep going even when something isn’t really working. That urge shows up everywhere — relationships, hobbies, our jobs — and raises a sharper question: How do you know when it’s actually time to walk away? 

So if it’s that’s a question you could use clarity on, start here:

• Not sure if your ambition works for you (or quietly against you)? How you answer these five questions says a lot.  

• Way before burnout, your body reveals how you really feel about your job — most people miss the early warning signs it might not be a good fit. 

• And when your doctor tells you those symptoms are “just stress,” what you say next can change whether you get real answers. 

• Finally, if quitting isn’t an option, a Sunday reset may do more for your week (and your paycheck) than you expect. 

— Anna “Healthy Job, Lingering Burnout” Davies, writer

Cardio is hard enough, but one small habit could make your workouts even more difficult. Fortunately, there’s an easy fix.

That urge to always help? It has a name: “stewardess syndrome.” We answered “yes” to more questions on this self-test than we want to admit.

Uh-oh, the “millennial daughter tax” is real, and it doesn’t just hit your bank account.

FYI, that supplement advice you saw on Facebook isn’t as harmless as it sounds… a new report has us nervous. 

We’re team daily naps. But ones that last over an hour can signal more than sleep debt.

Yes, this two-minute daily habit is annoying, but it may help you live longer. 

Remember when there was no “right” time to start wearing a bra? Mammograms feel a little like that now. It used to seem settled. Turn 40, book it, get it over with. Now the guidance has shifted.

A major, new study funded by the National Institutes of Health finds that a personalized, risk-based approach to screening works as well as annual mammograms for catching cancer. So instead of a blanket “start at X age” rule, doctors could tailor screenings to your genetics, health history, and breast density.

But not everyone agrees. The American College of Physicians now says average-risk women can start mammograms at 50 and go every other year. The American College of Radiology, backed by the American Cancer Society, strongly disagrees. And the federal task force lands somewhere in between.

Part of the disagreement comes down to false positives. Screening more often can catch cancer earlier. But it also raises the odds of false alarms. Over 10 years of yearly checks, a majority of women will get at least one. That can mean stress, extra imaging, or even biopsies.

What tends to get lost, though, is that “average risk” isn’t that simple to define. Nearly half of women have dense breasts, which raises cancer risk and can make scans harder to read. Risk also isn’t evenly distributed. Black women are more likely to be diagnosed younger and have worse outcomes. And family history, genetics, and prior biopsies can all shape your baseline. Which is why a one-size-fits-all screening plan holds up about as well as a training bra.

For Your Sanity:

• Know your risk. Not everyone needs to start screening at the same age. These factors can influence your timeline.

• Self-checks still matter. Women find about 40% of breast cancers themselves, not through mammograms. Here’s how to actually examine yours the right way.

• Getting called back is common. And it doesn’t necessarily mean cancer. These tips can help you manage mammogram anxiety.

• Ask about your scan. Some imaging centers now use AI to catch cancers that scans can miss. It’s worth asking if yours does because a recent study found it improved detection without more false alarms. And researchers are already testing next-gen tools that could detect cancer without radiation or painful compression altogether.

“Think your 3 pm coffee is long gone by bedtime? It’s probably not. Caffeine can stay active in your body for five to seven hours after your last sip. And research links caffeine consumption to roughly 45 minutes less total sleep time compared to those who skipped it.

The sneaky part? You may not even notice it’s affecting you. Research shows people often have difficulty perceiving their own sleep disruption after caffeine, so it may quietly steal your rest even when you feel fine.

In my practice, I advise patients to set a hard caffeine cutoff of 2 pm if they’re aiming for a 10 pm bedtime. That gives your body enough runway to clear it. Keep your daily total under 400 mg, roughly three to four standard cups of coffee, which is in line with FDA guidance.” 

PS: If your “one more coffee” habit is starting to hit differently, here are the signs you may be overdoing it. 

Heart attacks aren’t just an issue for older men anymore. A new analysis tied to the American Heart Association calls out a pattern that's been building for years: Younger women are more likely to be misdiagnosed, dismissed, or receive delays in care (and treatment) when it comes to heart attacks.

Part of the issue is that symptoms don’t always look the way we’ve been taught to expect. Think less dramatic chest-clutching, more subtle signs that are easy to write off as stress, anxiety, or just being tired.

There’s also a mismatch in how these heart attacks actually happen. In younger women, they’re more likely to be driven by things like artery tears, spasms, or inflammation — not just the classic plaque buildup doctors are trained to look for.

And zooming out, the trend isn’t going in the right direction. Heart attacks are rising in adults under 55, with younger women seeing some of the steepest increases.

The takeaway: If something feels off, treat it seriously — even if the symptoms aren't textbook.

Call it a grown-up “snackle box.” If your mood tanks the second your commute runs long, the viral snack tin is your fix. Some versions go a little over the top (exhibit A), but the idea is solid: When your blood sugar dips, you deserve better than the crushed chips at the bottom of your bag.

How you fill your tin will depend on when you plan to eat it, but it should always have a mix of these three components. Think pairings like dried apricots and almonds, a few whole grain crackers and mini cheese, apple slices and a peanut butter packet, or roasted chickpeas and dark chocolate. OK, now we’re hungry.

Apologies in advance to your mail carrier — this type of delivery makes Prime Day seem tame. But having hand weights at home is worth it. Even if you already go to the gym, a personal set gives you more flexibility and makes it easier to sneak in quick reps between meetings.

Here’s the full list of the best hand weights, according to experts.

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Written by Anna Davies. Edited by Jordan Galloway and Kylie McConville.
Fact-checked by Barbara Kean and Sara Tardiff.