19 Valentine’s Day Gifts That’ll Get Use (Not Just Sit in a Box)

Made from a mix of sage, frankincense, and oakmoss, this candle can be lit on every date night spent at home. Add your and your partner’s name, the date you made it official, and Birthdate Co. will do the rest. Printed on the candle will be a bespoke reading about your anniversary date, along with a tarot card emblematic of your relationship. It’ll burn for over 50 hours and once finished, you can use the glass as decor in your shared home. ($69.99, Birthdate Co.)

You talk to your person a lot. Which means you’ve probably heard a lot of their go-to stories. This card game helps you delve deeper without having to rack your brain about what to ask them next. Pressure = off. There are four categories, ranging from sex to “real talk.” Use it with your person or keep it on the table when friends come over. Either way, you’ll never experience a lull in conversation again. ($24.99, Hella Awkward)

Picture it: It’s post Valentine’s Day dinner; you’re both lounging in front of the television. What better way to end the evening than with a little spa experience? This face mask option from Dr. Jart+ is a two-step mask made with hyaluronic acid for an intense hydration boost. First, apply the included serum to your face, then place the bottom half of the mask before following up with the top. The cryo rubber is immediately cooling. Our editor is obsessed with these, claiming the aftereffect is actually shocking. Smooth, supple skin with reduced redness. It’s a yes from us. ($16, Sephora)

If your person is the type that insists on making coffee at home so they can play barista, this is your gift. This World Coffee Tour from Atlas Coffee sends them a bag of beans from a new part of the world once a month for six months. You can choose from whole or ground beans, and there’s even an option for Nespresso or Keurig machines. With each bag, they’ll get a postcard from the country and a notecard all about tasting notes and coffee history. ($109, Atlas Coffee Club)

Inventory on this one is almost out, so grab one now. It’s a medium roast, with tasting notes of milk chocolate, toasted vanilla, and graham cracker. It’s sugar-free, gluten-free, and vegan, so really all of your bases are covered. ($14.99, Grounds & Hounds)

Having something squeeze your calf all day long can be close to infuriating. Wide Open makes socks that really stretch, so no pinching or hugging is experienced. These hit right at the top of a boot or a high top, so they’re the perfect height. They’re also made from merino wool and can be worn year-round. Grab a few pairs for him and some for yourself, too. ($25, Wide Open)

We’re talking about red roses. This bouquet includes either 12 or 24 roses, and you can include a vase or not. It’ll be packed carefully within a box and comes with floral food and care instructions. Place your order today, it’s an easy slam dunk. ($60+, FTD)

Planning big, elaborate dates takes a lot of time and energy, which is why we wholeheartedly believe in making the process easier. These dates can all take place at home or extremely close to it. Categories include food, games, conversation topics, and more. Plus, each date can be completed in under 30 minutes. Supplies needed will always be minimal. Time to take the stress out of date-planning. ($27.99, The Adventure Challenge)

Packets are a thing of the past. When your partner is craving something sweet, add two tablespoons to milk or water, simmer and strain, then whisk. If they want it even sweeter, add sugar or honey. ($14.99, Spicewalla)

When you’re visiting in-laws, you don’t want to come down for breakfast in jeans. But maybe your old college T-shirt isn’t really appropriate. This set is made from tencel modal, which is temperature-regulating, machine-washable, and feels gentle on skin. We love that it’s available in a number of colors, so grab a set for him, too. ($138, Eberjey)

The checkerboard print is loud and fun, so we highly suggest slipping into these when you both get home from work. They’re available in four colors and sizes, and have padding on the bottom so you don’t feel like you’re walking barefoot. The bottom also has slip-resistant patches and the toe box is wide. When you’ve both worn them for days in a row (or weeks, whoops), pop them in the wash. ($55, Verloop)

Or a wallet, depending on the needs of your partner. We lean card case because it’s so handy and fits in every jeans pocket we have. This one is made from German leather and has four credit card slots, a center pocket for cash, and a double-sided thumb opening for quick access. There’s also a RFID-blocking option, which means their data will be safe from unwanted scanning. ($50+, Leatherology)

How can you resist this? “The Dog Father” embroidered on the front is the perfect mix of funny and cute. He’ll get a handful of compliments on your next park visit. ($35, Uncommon Goods)

These are the elevated pair you’ve been looking for. They’re water-resistant, with ribbed cuffs, touch-friendly tips on the pointers and thumbs, and suede pull tabs. Whether he’s going to work, out with friends, or on date night with you, these will become his go-to winter accessory. ($68, Mack Weldon)

If you both have a sweet tooth, this gift is technically for you too. You’ll get 17 truffles, with four bespoke Valentine’s Day love notes. Flavors include bourbon and vanilla, cherry and olive oil, hazelnuts and cacao, and more. PS: We’ve had chocolate from this brand and can confirm it’s delicious. Flavor combinations feel unique and overall presentation is A+. Plus, the brand is woman-founded. ($70, Vosges Chocolate)

This set is a four-piece, but we really adore them because you can see inside. Even the tops act as a trinket holder since they have a small dip in the center. They’re stackable and available in three color combos. If they don’t have that much to store, go with the two-piece set. ($64, Open Spaces)

Maybe it’s you, maybe it’s them. Either way, it seems like everyone we know could use some help in the hydration department and clearly Stanley is having a moment. The double-wall insulation keeps water cold for up to 48 hours, and the slim base actually fits into a car cupholder. But really, we appreciate this tumbler for the lid. It can rotate into three positions: one with a straw hole, a drink opening, and then fully closed. ($45, Stanley)

You both love burning candles in the evening, but maybe you want something that fits your home’s decor. These 10-inch chinoiserie taper candles are an easy way to tie together your living room’s aesthetic and are sold in sets of four. ($25/set of four, PreetyTeaPartee on Etsy)

We love colorblock clothing. With contrasting cuffs, hem, and neck, it can instantly be elevated with a button-up underneath, but the crew neck gives it an overall relaxed vibe. Grab it for lazy Sundays and pick this up for yourself. ($35, American Eagle)